How do I get my 17 month old to stop hitting?
What should you do when your toddler hits?
- Restrain them physically. Your instinct may be to physically hold your toddler back when they are trying to hit others.
- Remove your child from the situation.
- Discuss alternatives.
- Redirect.
- Provide emotional support.
- Prevent hitting before it begins.
Why is my 17 month old so aggressive?
Why are toddlers aggressive? Shocking as it may be to you (and onlookers), aggressive behavior is a normal part of your toddler’s development. Emerging language skills, a fierce desire to become independent, and undeveloped impulse control all make children this age prime candidates for getting physical.
What do you do when your child won’t stop hitting?
Frame your rules in a positive manner whenever possible. Instead of saying, “Don’t hit,” say, “Use respectful touches.” Talk to your child about the rules to ensure they understand the consequences of breaking the rules. When your child hits you, firmly say, “No hitting.
Why is my 17 month old so mean?
Toddlers often lack the language they need to communicate the powerful feelings they are experiencing—like anger, fear, or frustration. So they use other ways, like facial expressions and actions, to express their strong feelings. Consequently, hitting is very common for children this age.
Why does my 18 month old slap me?
Frequently, as you have discovered, one year olds can display behaviours such as slapping, hitting and even biting and these are perfectly normal at this age. While these can sometimes be due to frustration, often they are driven by sensory exploration.
How do you punish a toddler for hitting?
DO remain calm. He also gets a big dose of attention for a negative behavior, which only serves to reinforce it. If you are holding your child when he hits or bites, CALMLY put him down and gently hold his hands to prevent any more aggression.
Is my 17 month old autistic?
Autism can be diagnosed by 18-24 months, but it’s not usually diagnosed until 4-5 years. The early signs of autism can have a cascading effect on brain development and lead to significant social, language, and cognitive deficits, as well as challenging behaviors, if they’re not caught early.
What is normal behavior for a 17 month old?
Your 17-month-old has tons of new tricks, like opening every cabinet door in the house, chucking their toys across the room, stripping off his diaper and maybe even shrieking like a banshee. You might also find that they’re either terrified of dogs and strangers or show absolutely no fear at all.